--- title: How My Whole Life Was Shaped And Framed Around Bullies description: "Are you victim or victor? Ashton Bishop's life was shaped and framed around \nbullies. Rather than falling victim Ashton used it as leverage to grow." --- [Skip to content](https://blog.hellostepchange.com/blog/life-shaped-framed-around-bullies#main) [![Step 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### Run for your life! ![Ashton Bishop - Broken Tooth](https://blog.hellostepchange.com/hubfs/Step_Change_Jun2016/ashton_bishop_-_broken_tooth_615x663.jpg) Black eye and broken tooth! It’s alright, it did have a happy ending, I did get my tooth back. You know how they say, “You should see the other guy”. Well…he was getting shoulder rides, high-fives, dates from all the pretty girls while I was cowering away in a corner. This story had an indelible effect on me - this was my first encounter with bullies. But look, maybe I’ve got to take some responsibility for that. You can’t go blaming other people all your life. Anyway, the interesting thing is that in response to this encounter I started running. I was about seven years old at the time and by the time I was seventeen, I was State Champion. ![Ashton Bishop - Age 7](https://blog.hellostepchange.com/hubfs/Step_Change_Jun2016/ashton_bishop_-_age_7_615x460.jpg) I’d run a time of 1 minute 56 which is a reasonable clip for 800 metres. In fact, it’s so quick that it would’ve won me a gold medal… in the 2004 Olympic Games …in the women’s division...close-but-no-cigar! ### Everybody was Kung Fu fighting Although I’d taken running quite seriously, when I was 17, I took up martial arts. I graduated with a black belt then a senior student degree in Kung Fu a few years later, and … ![Ashton Bishop - Age 17 - Martial Arts](https://blog.hellostepchange.com/hubfs/Step_Change_Jun2016/ashton_bishop_-_age_17_-_martial_arts_615x435.jpg) ### What you talkin’ about Ashton? … at twenty-two I was at the World Universities Debating Championships in Athens as an adjudicator! ![World Universities Debating Championship](https://blog.hellostepchange.com/hubfs/Step_Change_Jun2016/world_globe_615x542.jpg) ### Legally cirku-fied It should be of no surprise to anyone except myself that at 23 I’d graduated with a Law degree and of course by 24 I had run away with a circus! ![Ashton Bishop - Circus](https://blog.hellostepchange.com/hubfs/Step_Change_Jun2016/ashton_bishop_-_law_degree_615x711.jpg) Literally, it’s true - I had actually run away with a circus! It was a circus in Denmark called Cirkus Benneweis. ![Ashton Bishop - Circus](https://blog.hellostepchange.com/hubfs/Step_Change_Jun2016/ashton_bishop_-_circus_615x470.jpg) ### Beating the odds When I looked back, I went “Wow! My whole life had been shaped and framed around bullies”. I certainly believe that bullying is the lowest form of social interaction but from my perspective, here’s the way I see things now. If you’re in trouble, try and talk your way out of it. If you can’t talk your way out of it, run and try to get the hell out of there. If you’re in a corner and you’ve got a fight on your hands, use your Martial Arts skills. If you get the hell beaten out of you… sue them using your Law degree. If you end up losing your case, lighten up on yourself and have a laugh - that’s when you run away and join the circus! *In the next post Ashton talks about how bullying and being the underdog is linked to his professional career.* *Click on the video below to watch Ashton's entire story.* ![](https://app.hubspot.com/settings/avatar/75476764b4a90ef5ea5be3e3760dc7dc) Written by [Step Change Marketing](https://blog.hellostepchange.com/blog/author/step-change-marketing) Step Change is a strategically-led digital creative agency – if that sounds like we do it all, its because we do. We have created a space where strategy meets creativity, working together to create a full ground-up digital offering to challenger businesses. 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